Monday, August 31, 2015

Oh, Anais...


"The modern Christ said: I was born without a skin.  I dreamed once that I stood naked in a garden and that it was carefully and neatly peeled, like a fruit.  Not an inch of skin left on my body.  It was all gently pulled off, all of it, and then I was told to walk, to live, to run.  I walked slowly at first, and the garden was very soft, and I felt the softness of the garden so acutely, not on the surface of my body, but all through it, the soft warm air and the perfumes penetrated me like needles through every open bleeding pore.  All the pores open and breathing the softness, the warmth and the smells.  The whole body invaded, penetrated, responding, every tiny cell and pore active and breathing and trembling and enjoying.  I shrieked with pain.  I ran.  And as I ran the wind lashed me, and then the voices of people like whips on me.  Being touched!  Do you know what it is to be touched by a human being!"
-Anais Nin, House of Incest

Wednesday, August 26, 2015

Following Atticus




Following atticus


Perhaps love is the process of my leading you gently back to yourself.
-Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

 breaching whale photo



The ocean can be a dark and perilous place, but much less so when you have a friend.
Over the weekend, crew members aboard a whale watching vessel off the coast of Long Island spotted an all-too-common sight -- a humpback whale that had become hopelessly entangled in fishing line, unable to swim. As they moved in for a closer look, they soon discovered that the whale, although desperately trapped, was at least not alone. The buddy-system, it seems, was in force.
Christine Callaghan, a guide with Pirate's Cove Whale Watch, says that what she saw unfold was "unforgettable."
The two humpbacks, named Foggy and Grommet, are frequent visitors to the area, but the extent of their friendship wasn't known until that day. Callaghan writes that Foggy "had rope wrapped around her head and across her blowholes, and as we carefully approached, we could see that she also had a loop of rope across her peduncle (the narrow part of her tail, just ahead of the flukes), dragging a mass of old lobster traps beneath her."
Although the other whale could swim away, it never left Foggy's side. Instead, Grommet could be seen lifting out of the water as if to plead for help from the approaching humans.
"I will challenge anyone who claims that humans are the only intelligent, empathetic animals," says Callaghan.
Even after a disentanglement crew arrived to assess Foggy, Grommet continued to linger close by, observing their progress. Then, the rescuers cut the ropes, freeing the humpback from her grim predicament.
“Now comes the truly amazing thing… the instant the rope came off Foggy’s head, Grommet dove, and then burst from the water in a spectacular breach," Callaghan writes.
“Tell me that wasn't a celebration."
The two whales were last seen swimming together, side by side, out into the open ocean.
via  treehugger.com

Valentina is Grateful



Michael Fishbach, co-founder of The Great Whale Conservancy (GWC), narrates his encounter with a young humpback whale entangled in local fishing nets.
At first, the animal appeared to be dead, yet Fishbach investigated and quickly discovered that the poor creature was tangled in a fishing net.
The humans had to act fast; what began as a tragedy soon became a thrilling rescue as Fishbach and his crew labored to free the young whale.
The entire encounter was caught on videotape and later narrated by Fishbach himself.
Watch as the whale named Valentina by her rescuers goes from near death to freedom, then rewards her saviours with dozens of magnificent full-body breeches and tail flips.
Indeed, this video has the power to inspire action on behalf of other beings. In ways big and small, each of us can be the one who helps another.

Wednesday, October 8, 2014

Fire and Ice
















Some say the world will end in fire,  
Some say in ice.
From what I’ve tasted of desire
I hold with those who favor fire.


But if it had to perish twice,
I think I know enough of hate


To say that for destruction ice
Is also great


And would suffice.

- Robert Frost

Bliss is still possible

"...when you fall in love, you can't imagine anything but bliss.  It feels so free to fall in love.  You run ahead, arms wide open, and all the unloving parts of yourself get left behind.  You wave goodbye and rush thrillingly into your perfect future.  That's the moment of tasting the bliss, shall we say.  Its energy can only last so long, however.  As your sight clears and you realize that you must live in the everyday world, bliss is still possible.  To have it, you must return to all those stranded parts of yourself that you left in the dust.  Oh, how you wish that you didn't have to look at them again!  All that ugliness.  So much shame and guilt and humiliation that you never deserved the first time.  Some stragglers are whiney and weak, like bedraggled orphans.  Some are puffed up with self-righteousness and pride like cheap con men.  There is anger and rage, anxiety and dread-- I couldn't name the countless bits of your normal self that haven't been uplifted by love.

But unpleasant as they are, if you go back and give them love, they add to your bliss.  The journey of the return brings reconciliation.  It brings a ripening.  It brings acceptance of who you are.  Because love isn't saying Come to me when you are good enough and I will cherish you forever.  It's saying, Bring me everything you are, and I will make it worthy to be loved.  The journey of return is what makes you real, and once it's done, you remain real forever."
-Deepak Chopra from The Daughters of Joy: An Adventure of the Heart